Oakes
Robert Barber (1814 - 1879) and Harriet Elizabeth Oakes (1816 - 1881) were married at the Norfolk Street Primitive Methodist Church, Guelph, Ontario, in 1836. It was the year they both had arrived in Canada, having left, together with two of Robert's brothers - James and William, and Harriet's parents and siblings.
Harriet's parents were Jonathan Oakes (1791 - 1878) and Dinah Short (1793 - 1866). Both were born in Cratfield, Suffolk and died in the little hamlet of Oustic, in Eramosa Township, Wellington County, Ontario.

Dinah Short and Jonathan Oakes Sr.
Jonathan Oakes and Dinah Short were married on the 17th of October, 1815, at St. Mary's - the parish church of Cratfield, Suffolk. Both made their mark 'X' in the registry. The witnesses were William Westrop and Jemima Oakes.
Related and other Oakes Information on the IGI (International Genealogical Index)
Joseph
OAKES Christening: 14 Aug 1630 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 9103584 - 1553922
Joseph
OAKES m. Phillis RUMSBY 23 Jul 1797 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. Film M062921 1754-1837 0919569 6903997
Phyllis
Rumsby OAKES Christening: 26 Nov 1797 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES Mother: Phillis RUMSBY
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569 Film 6900891
Mary
Anne OAKES Christening: 17 Mar 1799 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES Mother: Phyllis RUMSBY
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569 Film 6900891
Henry
Huggin OAKES Christening: 5 Jun 1808 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES Mother: Phillis RUMSBY
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569 Film 6900891
Harriet
OAKES Christening: 14 May 1809 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Mary CHANDLER
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569 Film 6900891
John
OAKES m. Margaret SCASE 14 Oct 1785 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. M062921 1754-1837 0919569 . . .
John
OAKES Christening: 5 Nov 1787 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jno. OAKES Mother: Margaret
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569
Susannah
OAKS Christening: 27 Sep 1789 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKS Mother: Margaret
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569 Film 6900891
Sarah
OAKES Christening: 3 Aug 1794 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Margaret SCACE
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569
Jemima
OAKES Christening: 9 Apr 1797 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Margaret SCACE
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569
Mira
OAKES Christening: 8 Jan 1800 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Margaret SCACE
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569
Elizabeth
OAKES Christening: 27 Aug 1803 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Margaret SCACE
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569
Mary OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: F Marriage: 13 Feb 1794 Cratfield, Suffolk, England M062921 1754-1837
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John OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Marriage: 24 Mar 1809 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
John
OAKES m. Mary CHANDLER 24 Mar 1809 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. M062921 1754-1837 0919569 . . .
Susannah OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: F Marriage: 31 Dec 1811 Cratfield, Suffolk, England M062921 1754-1837
0919569 . . .
Jemima OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: F Marriage: 28 Jan 1817 Cratfield, Suffolk, England M062921 1754-1837
0919569 . . .
Jonathan
OAKES m. Elisabeth KEABLE 8 Nov 1828 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. M062921 1754-1837 0919569
Sarah OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: F Marriage: 17 Nov 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England M062921 1754-1837
0919569 . . .
Hannah OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: F Marriage: 7 Apr 1837 Cratfield, Suffolk, England M062921 1754-1837
0919569 . . .
Jonathan OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Christening: 8 Jul 1821 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Jonathan OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Jonathan OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Jonathan OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Christening: 28 May 1837 Mendham, Suffolk, England
Jonathan OAKS - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Christening: 12 Feb 1792 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Jonathan OKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Christening: 29 May 1848 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Jonathan OAKES - International Genealogical Index
Gender: M Marriage: 16 Oct 1815 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Jonathan
OAKS Christening: 12 Feb 1792 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKS Mother: Margaret SCARCE
Jonathan
OAKES Christening: 8 Jul 1821 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Laetitia SHORT
Jonathan
OAKES m. Dinah SHORT 16 Oct 1815 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. Type 7508413 - 0935389 Sheet: 5
John
OAKES m. Laetitia SHORT 28 Mar 1815 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 7508413 - 0935389
Robert
OAKES Christening: 16 Oct 1681 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES Mother: Elizabeth
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Robert
OAKES Christening: 19 Sep 1708 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES Mother: Sarah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Robert
OAKES Christening: 12 Apr 1795 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES Mother: Mary
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Robert
OAKES Christening: 15 Nov 1805 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES Mother: Phillis RUMSBY
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062922 1539-1812 0919569
Robert OAKES m. Grace MARTIN 2 Dec 1652 Hoxne, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8830230 - 1553288
Robert
OAKES m. Elizabeth WOODLAND 25 Sep 1680 Eye, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Robert
OAKES m. Elizabeth TALLER 5 Oct 1712 Eye, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Robert
OAKES m. Catherine STYLES 25 Jun 1786 Eye, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8703630 - 1396307
Nathaniel
OAKES Christening: 3 Jun 1669 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
George
OAKES Christening: 14 Dec 1675 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Edmond
OAKES Christening: 10 Mar 1632 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
George
OAKES Christening: 21 Feb 1798 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES Mother: Mary
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Richard
OAKES Christening: 4 Jan 1712 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES Mother: Sarah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
Crispin
OAKES Christening: 25 Oct 1685 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES Mother: Elizabeth
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
James
OAKES Christening: 25 Jul 1681 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Joseph OAKES Mother: Mary
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
James
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569
James
OAKES m. Sarah CASON 9 Dec 1803 Yaxley, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8911001 - 1553372
Sarah OAKES Christening: 14 Apr 1816 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
John
OAKES Christening: 13 Apr 1817 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Laetitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Susan
OAKES Christening: 10 Jan 1820 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
John
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Robert
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Sophia
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
James
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Letitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Jonathan
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Letitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Jane
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Letitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
George
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Jonathan
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: Jonathan OAKES Mother: Dinah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Robert OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Letitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Daniel
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Letitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569 Film 6900891
Abraham
OAKES Christening: 9 Apr 1843 Yaxley, Suffolk, England
Father: William OAKES Mother: Mary
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C131881 -1843 0918545
Abry
OXE Birth: Abt. 1611 Of Metfield, Suffolk, England m. Richard LOVE
Film Number: 447964
Abry
OXE m. Richard LOVE Marriage: 4 Oct 1632 Metfield, Suffolk, England
Film Number: 458342
William
OAKES Christening: 28 Apr 1833 Cratfield, Suffolk, England
Father: John OAKES Mother: Letitia
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C062921 1813-1877 0919569
William
OAKES m. Mary ROSE 20 Nov 1826 Yaxley, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. M132391 -1826 0989542
Richard
OKES Christening: 30 Sep 1832 Yaxley, Suffolk, England
Father: Richard OKES Mother: Jemimah
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. C132491 -1832 0989591
Richard
OAKES m. Jemima CASON 21 Jan 1799 Yaxley, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8911001 - 1553372
Richard
OXE Birth: Abt. 1545 Of Benhall, Suffolk, England m. Joan MARGETS
Film Number: 1239534
1570 Benhall, Suffolk, England
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. A456618 - 456618
Ales
OAKES Christening: 22 Oct 1637 Eye, Suffolk, England
Father: Robert OAKES
Batch number: Dates Source Call No. 8933983 - 1553577
I am also grateful for much help with my Oakes family research and material, received from the records and from conversations with Mr. Jonathan B. Nelson and Mr. Gregory Oakes. Mr. Nelson is now deceased. I first knew of Gregory Oakes when, on a visit to St. Mary's, Cratfield with my father, Freeman Barber, in the early 1990's, I saw that a Gregory Oakes of Elora, Ontario had signed his name in the guest registry just prior to our own visit there. Naturally, I looked up Gregory on returning to Canada and we were able to exchange many pictures and much useful information on our families as they intersect.